tonight is Sunday two days before my second try at chemo with a new regime. The last few nights has been waking up in fear. Meditating on his words. I wish I am strong and can go in with a brave front but I can't abba father.
I know you didn't give me a spirit of fear and I feel such a failure disappointing you. Forgive me lord.
It is just the time when I am beyond words. Lord, cover me. Cover me Jesus. Jesus jesus
I know Edmunds little tender heart as he hugs me, massage me, pack my medicine, hold my hands, console me. I have such a gentile son in him. He makes my bed and tuck me in. He sees to so many of my needs that I feel lost when he is not around. It is so unfair to Matthew and him but I can't change me feelings.
Sunday, November 22, 2015
Friday, November 13, 2015
Things I don't like
in all these, I noticed I am selfish. I do not have others in my mind as much as I want it to be. I need to restart praying for others.
I don't like the mood swings I have. Happy sad, worry, angry. The negative I know but I can't control as it creeps up on me
The feeling of loneliness, self pity wanting to crawl into a hole.
I don't like the mood swings I have. Happy sad, worry, angry. The negative I know but I can't control as it creeps up on me
The feeling of loneliness, self pity wanting to crawl into a hole.
Friday, November 6, 2015
My husbandth
looking at my husband drooping off to sleep while watching a show really hurts me.
This monster I am tagged with has taken a toll on the man I love most. He has to see yo my unique needs in juicing, preparing special food for me and seeing me suffer and trying in all ways to make things more pleasant for me. He made special porridge trying to give me variety when I can't eat. He ate with me food thaticouldhold ate just yo keep me company even if it is food he doesn't like. The emotional strain plus the physical strain has been tremendous on him. Ferrying me to the hospitals to see the various doctors for different reasons.
He has to run the household on his own while last time we always could discuss and made decisions together.
I am so angry and so sad.angry with myself and angry at the monster.. And to think that the journey is still at its initial stage.
Why and how I could only surrender to you lord. Pray lord your grace upon my husband. In Jesus name I pray amen.
This monster I am tagged with has taken a toll on the man I love most. He has to see yo my unique needs in juicing, preparing special food for me and seeing me suffer and trying in all ways to make things more pleasant for me. He made special porridge trying to give me variety when I can't eat. He ate with me food thaticouldhold ate just yo keep me company even if it is food he doesn't like. The emotional strain plus the physical strain has been tremendous on him. Ferrying me to the hospitals to see the various doctors for different reasons.
He has to run the household on his own while last time we always could discuss and made decisions together.
I am so angry and so sad.angry with myself and angry at the monster.. And to think that the journey is still at its initial stage.
Why and how I could only surrender to you lord. Pray lord your grace upon my husband. In Jesus name I pray amen.
Thursday, November 5, 2015
Next step
Today will be making a second attempt to see the oncologist. Going to inform her that I do not wish to cont with the chemotherapy
Obviously very nervous and troubled over it
Basing on every medical book, it is like telling the world I would like to live a few years less and I am walking on glass. If I try to look at the side effects, it is so frightening and nobody dares tell me that it won't be worst. If the last round is still not over, can I take the next round and heap on it.
I feel it in me that the Lord will heal me if I stop. I am to testify that h dis with me. But what if the feeling is wrong . What if I heard him wrong?. I am at peace but what if I am at peace due to human nature and not his peace
That is chemotherapy . What about the next step. The radiotherapy, the on e year infusions what am I suppos e to decide.
Prayed and prayed that I leave it to the Lord. That he will be there at the consultation storm and he will lead the discussion and he will make the decisions. Pray lord lord be there. Be there to lead the meeting and be my father abba to decide on the result. I really only want to strings that pleases you show ever frightening or wrong it is to others. I believe you will carry me through.
Lord lord once again, I cry out to you hear me in heaven, answer me and respond to me.
I truly have faith that you have a plan for mr a plan to prosper me and not to harm me.oh lord I need the peace you promise and your strength to carry on
Lord lord lord father I can not think of calling out to you in Jesus name I pray amen
Obviously very nervous and troubled over it
Basing on every medical book, it is like telling the world I would like to live a few years less and I am walking on glass. If I try to look at the side effects, it is so frightening and nobody dares tell me that it won't be worst. If the last round is still not over, can I take the next round and heap on it.
I feel it in me that the Lord will heal me if I stop. I am to testify that h dis with me. But what if the feeling is wrong . What if I heard him wrong?. I am at peace but what if I am at peace due to human nature and not his peace
That is chemotherapy . What about the next step. The radiotherapy, the on e year infusions what am I suppos e to decide.
Prayed and prayed that I leave it to the Lord. That he will be there at the consultation storm and he will lead the discussion and he will make the decisions. Pray lord lord be there. Be there to lead the meeting and be my father abba to decide on the result. I really only want to strings that pleases you show ever frightening or wrong it is to others. I believe you will carry me through.
Lord lord once again, I cry out to you hear me in heaven, answer me and respond to me.
I truly have faith that you have a plan for mr a plan to prosper me and not to harm me.oh lord I need the peace you promise and your strength to carry on
Lord lord lord father I can not think of calling out to you in Jesus name I pray amen
Tuesday, November 3, 2015
Few days in between
Monday suppose to give blood and Tuesday was suppose to be second round
Instead Monday went in to try to see the oncologist. She was not around. So the meeting was postponed to Thursday afternoon. Wasting Edmunds and Adrian's leave. What to do.
So these few days will be the floating days not knowing what and how.
I was disturbed and wondered if I a
Should give it another try. Immediately my sores flare up. I don't know why. Stress or was it His message.. Truth is when I decided not to carry on, I do feel peace.
I this decide not to think about it. Let Him handle it. At least I had the sense of mind to at least what God has for me as an alternative .
Scanned through the net, read on juicing and turmeric and vitamins.
It is still His plan that matters. I just clean the house the way ai know how. By going it Somme cleaning, boosting it with what I think it lacks. Whether it is the way or not, mine not to questioned. Just trust
Instead Monday went in to try to see the oncologist. She was not around. So the meeting was postponed to Thursday afternoon. Wasting Edmunds and Adrian's leave. What to do.
So these few days will be the floating days not knowing what and how.
I was disturbed and wondered if I a
Should give it another try. Immediately my sores flare up. I don't know why. Stress or was it His message.. Truth is when I decided not to carry on, I do feel peace.
I this decide not to think about it. Let Him handle it. At least I had the sense of mind to at least what God has for me as an alternative .
Scanned through the net, read on juicing and turmeric and vitamins.
It is still His plan that matters. I just clean the house the way ai know how. By going it Somme cleaning, boosting it with what I think it lacks. Whether it is the way or not, mine not to questioned. Just trust
Saturday, October 31, 2015
End of second month
cancer two months ago is so alien. Beginning of the year heard that me I chee has it and she is about the only person I know personally that is a patient. I can't even think of another person I know. Today it is me!
I wish I have a magic formula but I don't. I don't know how to react and what to do. It brings you down on your knees and you only have Him for support.
You don't know if it ever ends. And when and how it ends. A painful death is so frightening.
So you kinda think you don't mind dying fast. But than dying is so sad. So your mood turn bad.
Then you tell yourself to be happy so that you can fight this monster and so the circle turns. Not only does it turn it goes up and down with your mood.
I wish I have a magic formula but I don't. I don't know how to react and what to do. It brings you down on your knees and you only have Him for support.
You don't know if it ever ends. And when and how it ends. A painful death is so frightening.
So you kinda think you don't mind dying fast. But than dying is so sad. So your mood turn bad.
Then you tell yourself to be happy so that you can fight this monster and so the circle turns. Not only does it turn it goes up and down with your mood.
Friday, October 30, 2015
Surrender
this morning I know the most important reason why I am not going for chemotherapy any more.
It not only bring the worse of my character and temper, it takes me away from my God.
Yesterday at the specialist dentist, I was taken aback when he prayed for me. I now realised that God has been really really sending his people around me every corner I turn. The oncologist the dentists,he hasn't left me.
But in my pain and desperation I had been unfaithful. I doubted him and I shut him out. I am sorry God. I am so sorry. At that instant I realised cannot let this cancer treatment do that to me. I am now more sure it is s the right decision to make. I cannot let it take my god away from me.
Today I am going to surrender not only my soul and spirit but literally my body over to Him. It is His temple after all. My job is yo keep it as clean as possible. The rest is His to do. The day will come when he decides the take my soul back and throw away this body. I will be there in no pain to say. Your will not mine
It not only bring the worse of my character and temper, it takes me away from my God.
Yesterday at the specialist dentist, I was taken aback when he prayed for me. I now realised that God has been really really sending his people around me every corner I turn. The oncologist the dentists,he hasn't left me.
But in my pain and desperation I had been unfaithful. I doubted him and I shut him out. I am sorry God. I am so sorry. At that instant I realised cannot let this cancer treatment do that to me. I am now more sure it is s the right decision to make. I cannot let it take my god away from me.
Today I am going to surrender not only my soul and spirit but literally my body over to Him. It is His temple after all. My job is yo keep it as clean as possible. The rest is His to do. The day will come when he decides the take my soul back and throw away this body. I will be there in no pain to say. Your will not mine
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