What would I say..............

In the stillness of the night, all quiet, people tend to think a lot. I do. I talk a lot with myself, with God and then sometimes just thoughts. You wonder if those thoughts will ever reach out to anywhere, any place, anyone. Being an introvert and basically a quiet person, I don't 'pull' up anyone to listen to my thoughts either. Maybe that is why when Internet has blogs, it appeal to me a lot.

Thus the title of this blog pops up ever so often. Tonight I decided to list down the first of a series of things I would say or do (as i feel now) meaning I may change as time goes by.

#if my children ask me who will be a good spouse for them......
Finding your soul mate is not easy but when you do, you will know. Even when you do find him or her, it is not 'happily ever after'. Therefore it is important that you must love each other to place the other more important than yourself. My friends are so surprise that I don't place importance on race and background as a choice. But I do say that in that case, it will bring about more to overcome before achieving 'loving each other' status.

#when my children and their spouse want to set up home on their own.......
I do believe that as you marry, it is time to leave your parents and be one with your spouse. It is also time for the parents to let go of the children(from both sides). If we have taught our children well, we should know that they will love us enough to come back to us. In this case, it will mean, to see to us and to take care of us as needed. So do go with my blessings

#when my children becomes parents........
A child is a gift of God.Whatever the circumstances, the child is entitles to the best love and care you can provide.No two way about it. To have a child is solely the parents decision and remember the child has no part in the discussion thus the child's entitlement

#if I am in a coma and is not likely to wake up after a year..........
please let me go.Being a living dead is one of the saddest thing to me. It pains the one in bed and it pains those who love me ever more.I have no regrets in life and I have fulfilled my role.

The situations are countless and there is no end to this blog so it only could be continued and never end......................