Jerks

When a child is born, his or her first contact is with the parents.(normal cases). As the child grows up , the biggest influence on the character is still is the family. The time spend with the family is of the highest percentage. A child's instinct too is to please the parents so the child will tend to mimic the parents and perform as expected by the parents.
By the time the child attends school, interaction with others is increased. When a teacher observed irregularities, efforts to change to child's character is made. Some times it is successful, sometimes it is not. This will go on as time goes by and we meet with friends and then colleagues and so forth. As time goes by, the efforts to change the person will reduce. People we meet will either accepts you or move away from you when the character is found to be repulsive.
That character will later married(funny but God is fair enough to find a partner for all, even these jerks!) and they will have children and thus the circle goes on.
Along the line, things still gets unpleasant for people whom they come in contact. Is this what they refer to as adding spices to one's life? I look at it as negative vibes that I prefer to stay away from.
At the same time I remind myself to look at the mirror and try harder NOT to be like these jerks.My personal belief is ..... if you have nothing better to say, don't say anything at all. Not forgetting....... if you can't help, at least don't hurt others.
To the jerks that came along my life., I will minimise any interactions with you all.